Friday, 8 February 2008

'A friend indeed' - Cowboys in love, cowboys alone

Many miles away from here, in Perth, it is now early Saturday morning, which means that, as far as we know, Heath will be laid to rest in a few hours, among family and friends, in a town he loved and which still loves him.

This post will be constantly updated as more information becomes available about today.


The neighbourhood where Heath's mother lives looks to be almost under siege, by both police and photographers - the intense privacy of Heath's family at uncomfortable odds with the media's preoccupation with their son. After all, this isn't Beverly Hills, Los Angeles, this is Applecross, Perth, and this is a normal loving and private family. A local paper said that Jake has arrived in Perth, but this is as yet unsubstantiated, and little mention of his presence has been made.



According to a report, Heath's 'parents Kim and Sally Ledger want to follow a sombre ceremony with a celebration on Cottesloe Beach in their native Perth, Australia. Childhood friend Paul Mullert tells The Australian Times newspaper Ledger was "the quintessential Australian, who loved nothing more (than) slipping on a pair of boardies and his (flip-flops) and heading to Cottesloe Beach."' Here's the beach - what a place to spend a hot summer's evening. Of course, Heath won't be there - by then he'll be buried in Karrakatta Cemetery.


Here are more details of the family's farewell this evening. Love as always to Heath's family, friends and fans, especially during the next few hours and days.

The cowboy in love now a cowboy alone

In 2006, Jake Gyllenhaal appeared on the cover of Italian Vanity Fair as part of the promotion for Brokeback Mountain. The legend on the cover calls this stunning young man a cowboy in love, a theme that is continued on Jake's new Italian Vanity Fair cover, but now that cowboy is alone. Here are both covers, as well as the beautiful picture inside the 2006 issue, here divided into two, of Ang Lee with both Jake and Heath. I know this is a favourite picture of more than one reader here, myself included.



A huge thanks to Xenia and Sonia who have done great work in translating this interview for us all - thereby throwing light on the mystery of the never ending supply of cappuccinos brought to the hotel suite where the interview took place. I hadn't realised at the time, but the feature begins with the description of Jake sitting quietly in the director's chair on the set of Brothers, staring into space, trying to take in what had happened. A whole new level is added to Jake's words, which, so often enigmatic and open to interpretation, now are poignant reminders of a friend lost.



Jake has talked about Heath before, most recently when Jake appeared on the Jonathan Ross Show, but here he describes how much he cares for him: 'Ours has been a blind date. In the movie we had to play the part of two lovers, but we had never exchanged more than a couple of words, we had no idea if we would have been fine together. But Brokeback Mountain worked because we found that “feeling”. In the story, Jack and Ennis don’t know each other, and fall in love slowly and in the same way we have slowly liked each other. And have become friends. Friends indeed: I think you can see this in the movie.' As the cover says: 'Brokeback Mountain has given me the most important experience of my career, and a friend indeed.'

As always, noone can flirt like Jake Gyllenhaal, and, right at the beginning, when the interviewer introduces herself, Jake's response is: 'mmm... Just Gorgeous.'


And finally...

Farragut North is off - as far as Jake's concerned, and as far as Mike Nichols is concerned. Now, Doug Hughes will direct the play, with performances beginning in the summer. Jake seems to have a busy year ahead of him as far as movies go and maybe there wasn't the time for this project. I would have loved to have seen Jake on the stage - and at the stage door - but the idea of 2009 full of Jake movies is a happy one.


Includes pictures from IHJ, ATC, Vanity Fair.

61 comments:

Iggy said...

That was a perfect post for this sad day WDW. I adored the pictures of Heath you chose, Thank you.
Rosie
x

Wet Dark and Wild said...

Thank you Rosie - as far as I'm concerned, it's now Saturday - it's Heath's day. It's so sad and I was upset while writing this post as thinking about what we're going to get from Jake filmwise reminded me of what we won't get from Heath now. But this is also a day to celebrate Heath - that wake sounds to me like it will be wonderful.

So let's all stay close, yes? xx

Anonymous said...

Beautiful post today, WDW. Nice to think of Heath being back in his homeland with those who love him, near that beautiful beach. These pictures of Heath are fantastic, I love seeing different aspects of him.

My thoughts and love are with Heath and his family, friends and fans today. :*

I love the contrasting Vanity Fair covers of Jake too. The first one I have always found amazingly beautiful. "Il Cowboy Innamorato" is anything more beautiful than that? *sigh* I'm a language and culture freak as I've mentioned, and Italian is one of the most very beautiful IMO.

That lucky interviewer - Jake certainly knows how to disarm. That kinda talk would make me crazy! ;*

Love to all of you today -

Ruby said...

Nice post WDW. 'mmm, gorgeous' :D

The Aussie's make excellent beer btw, they just export the cheap crappy stuff to the UK! :D

Wet Dark and Wild said...

Just to let you all know - As and if it's necessary, I'll update this post.

Thanks Bertie - I absolutely love that 2006 cover, one of my favourites. Just look at Jake there - oh my... I'm amazed this interviewer kept her wits about ehr at all!

Hi Ruby - I've never been to Australia so I have only drunk the stuff here, mainly in Oz bars, and it's just ugh. I'll take your word for it :D

'Mmmmm. Gorgeous' - sigh.... Noone says 'mmmm' like Jake :)

BirdGirl said...

What a beautiful post. What a sad day. If Jake is there, I am glad the he has been able to keep a low profile. This is a terrible time for everyone. We need each other.

Big hugs,

BG

Wet Dark and Wild said...

Hi BG - thanks! This really is a sad day, especially thinking what Jake and Heath's family are going through. Good to see you.

KeepCalm+CarryOn said...

What a poignant and beautiful post (((WDW))) It's so sad,knowing that it's Saturday in Perth now,a day dawning that Heath's parents never thought they would see, having to bury their only boy. Heart-breaking! My thoughts are with them,with Michelle and Matilda,with all Heath's family and friends,but particularly with (((Jake))),poor love.

Thank you for choosing one of my favourite ever Heath-pics for this post, that lovely androgynous masterpiece in the beret,the glasses and the lacy cuffs. Heavenly and heart-rending in equal measure. The shot of Jake and Heath creased with laughter has really done me in - such good times, gone forever...

I'm hoping to get back here later and in the morning. It's really important to me to be with you,WDW,and all you lovely people here, who understand all too well how sad and reflective I feel.

Take care all,stay close xxxx

Wet Dark and Wild said...

Hi Nadine - I think that's one of my favourite photos too. Heath looks gorgeous in it and so thoughtful. I find it really hard thinking about what will be going on in Perth today and also what Jake will be going through. (((Jake)))

Anonymous said...

OMY WDW your tribute today was just right - I printed out the beach picture, actually colored it in with pastel myself, interestig how gestures like this seem to move my own personal universe and help, somehow.

Speaking of universe - how all seems to come together - the moving VF interview, and the most appreciated translated by Xenia and Sonia. OMG. world seems to tremble.

I too love the picture of Heath with glasses and beret, and so I put it with my Heath altar UPSIDEDOWN as Heath would do as a joke that took me ages to "get" -

An Aussie acquaintance maintains Yanks have no sense of humor.

I asked her, this morning, about a wake in Australia: she said you set the coffin upright in a cornere and drink. Said Brits and Aussies know how to drink. I told her there were quite a few Brits among my mourning circle, and she said "send those pommie B's my love. . . " She's been in this country for about 20 years, but doesnt think too much of Yanks. As I said she said, above: no sense of humor. Hmmmm.

So I got a taste of Down Under today.

O yes empty cowboy boots (thanks hot teddy) for altar. corny, but -whatever! - although I am very glad not to do alot of mix up between the men, Heath and Jake, and the men of the story at this time. althougn it is inevitable and I guess always will be.

Mmmmmmm. . . . song my daddy used to sing to me. . . . (blow blow soft and low wind of the western sea. . . . )

love to all

Anonymous said...

wow... very beautiful post, WDW! And very gorgeous pictures of Heath...

and I know what you mean... when reading Jake's new film projects. I guess it will be a long time before we get used to the idea that we won't hear any more news about Heath.

Jake once said since Brokeback, he has always let what's happening in his life merge into his performance (something to that effect), it will be very interesting to see how he tackle "Nailed' rogue politician role.

I didn't have Australian wine in the house, but I was wearing a stripey long sleeve tee at work today.

According to yahoo weather, Perth will be 32 degrees and sunny tomorrow. I hope the Australian sunshine can heal some sadness.

Anonymous said...

Winterbird I got weather report from a few sites as high of 89 (!) and partly cloudy for Saturday which is already today there.

Wet Dark and Wild said...

Oh Pia - I love that comment :D It makes me want to luxuriate in the wonder of Heath - I love that you've printed out the pictures and have an upside down memorial to Heath - love and humour and affection all together - I reckon Heath would like that.

Poms and Aussies have a great relationship - many of us are related after all! - and yes, I think we can drink. But seems a bit unfair to say the yanks have no sense of humour - just look at Jake! I try hard not to mix up the men too, each of them seems good to me. Like the sound of the western sea.

I'm on Margaritas now - treating myself as it's the occasion for it.

Hey Winterbird - I'm coming round to the Nailed project again - it's the idea of Rogue Jake that's doing it for me. I also tend to think that if Jake's chosen to do it, it must have a good script. Is there a comic side to it, I wonder.I own nothing stripey or orange but I'm going to correct that and buy something to remind me of Heath for those special days. I like in that photo that he even has stripes on the soles of his shoes.

The weather sounds beautiful in Perth. I hope it shines on everyone today.

Anonymous said...

Wonderful tribute, WDW. Thinking of everyone and of all the loved ones in Perth for the funeral. I hope Heath and his family have the privacy they need right now. He deserves a special send-off.

Glad to have you all on this sunny but sad day here..

Wet Dark and Wild said...

Good to see you, Get Real! It may be dark outside here and a cold night, but it feels sunny to me. I'm sure Heath will have a great send off. My thoughts are over there too and I'm so glad to have everyone here :)

Anonymous said...

And I do love the picture of Heath standing on one leg in the desert -lovely choice. thanks

Wet Dark and Wild said...

Hi Pia - I didn't know whether to put that picture in, but it's quite possibly my favourite picture of Heath. I love it. I used to live in the desert and seeing Heath in it like that is very moving. I love to see Jake in the desert too. I'm having computer problems this evening - it knows something is amiss.

Anonymous said...

I like that picture of Heath too, guys, reminds me of a yoga pose or something - the tree pose.

Heath's beach is so serene looking.

Pia, I love your imagery of your Dad humming to you a song about the Western Sea, and yours too, WDW, about love, humor, affection and sadness, all being felt at once on a day such as today. Cheers to Heath. :')

Wet Dark and Wild said...

Hi Bertie! - that picture's special. It reminds me of a sceme in the fabulous story by Kumari - Ronin - and it also shows Heath strong, steady and cool. The first time I saw it I thought I should take yoga up - but I have no balance. The tree pose - love that, Bertie. Every emotion today. I'm not alone tonight so I can't allow myself to feel it properly, tomorrow I will be able to and I have BBM in the player ready to go. Yes, cheers to Heath :)

Anonymous said...

"Heavenly and heart-rending in equal measure"--thanks, Nadine. Sums up not only the picture but so much of what we've come to love and understand about Heath. Hugs to everyone here and to you, WDW, especially over the coming hours.

Anonymous said...

(((Heath, come back!!!)))

Sorry! I don't feel well, everything is so damn sad.

Thanks for the updates WDW!

Wet Dark and Wild said...

So good to hear from you, Kim! Nadine says everything very beautifully. Thanks for the hug - one back to you too - it's appreciated. xx

Hi Anon - I wish I knew a name for you so I could give you a hug too. I'm sorry you feel so bad, but you're not alone. It is so sad.

Anonymous said...

I thught of a crane, rather than a tree, since herons and cranes often stand on one leg, the other tucked up into their feathers -

Wet Dark and Wild said...

Yep, like a flamingo :)

Anonymous said...

oh yes! !

the sense of flight, stillness, the orange colors, as of sunset - hearbreakingly expressive.

when and for waht was this picture taken?

Wet Dark and Wild said...

I love how you talk, Pia. I don't know what the pictures were for, but everything about them fts Heath perfectly.

KeepCalm+CarryOn said...

(((Kim))) (((WDW))) (((Fellow Mourners All)))

If I manage to weave something beautiful with words ,it's testament to the beauty of the men who inspired them... (((Heath and Jake)))

I'm sitting here in my "Burnt Orange" T-shirt and I shall wear stripes tomorrow to keep faith with Heath.

I love the sultry,sun-bronzed beauty of that desert photograph...and I think I can smell mint soap ;-) :-(
I am very proud to say that it was me who gave Kumari the germ of the idea for that steamy Moroccan night,but she took it and ran with it as only she can. If only...

With you in spirit (((Jake))) - we're all holding you up darlin',hold tight...xxx

Wet Dark and Wild said...

Nadine, I didn't know that, that you were responsible for the Moroccan inspiration! well, thank heavens you were. I can smell that mint soap too :D I am definitely going to get something orange - I've been wearing black for days. And yes! Jake, we are holding you up! (((Jake)))

Anonymous said...

maybe we can all go to Ojo Caliente, the hot springs in northern New Mexico, and cover our nekkid selves with red clay and then wash it off and soak in the mineral springs and Jake, too. it would be so good for him.

Wet Dark and Wild said...

Pia, can I put in a special request that I can be the one to wash the red clay off a nekkis Jake?? Pretty please?? I agree, it would be so good for him.

Anonymous said...

Have I missed anything? Mint soap? Steamy Moroccan night? With Jake???
*THUD*


It's morning in Perth, 8 o'clock, I think.

Wet Dark and Wild said...

Hi Anon, 'just' a story - Kumari's Ronin, which had a chapter set in Morocco. Quite possibly one of the most celebrated chapters in fanfic!

Yes, 8am in Perth. People will be getting up and thinking about how they will deal with the day. I hope that Jake isn't in some hotel room, I hope he's with others, being held up...

Anonymous said...

neighbor bringing chinese food, wonder what she will think of Heath Altar. gonna watch DDL film
Ballad of Rose and Jack.

I am all atremble, like somebody in a Leonard Cohen song. see you later, friends.

Wet Dark and Wild said...

G'night Pia - enjoy your meal and film. We'll see you tomorrow xx

KeepCalm+CarryOn said...

Just coming in for a final hug of the night before I potter off to bed. I made the mistake of following a link to some Heath tributes on Youtube and one that was "Brokeback" based to a Josh Groban song had me blubbering like a baby again.

I'll be thinking of all of you as I try to get some sleep and praying for strength and solace for all those who will be saying their final goodbyes to Heath in Perth all too soon. Especially Jake... Just too sad...

God bless,Heath,love and miss you always...until we all meet again xxx

Goodnight my friends. Stay close.

twistedlogic said...

Beautiful post, WDW. And thanks to Xenia and Sonia for the translation. I agree with Bertie, Italian is such a beautiful sounding language and "Il Cowboy Innamorato" has such a gorgeous ring to it but so poignant now (((Jake))) My thoughts are with all of Heath's family and friends atm, and all of you(us) who are wishing we didn't have to say goodbye.

Anonymous said...

Hey all

Yes it is Sat. morning in Perth. I am with you WDW hoping Jake and all are together and helping each other thru. Pia you have a fabulous way with words! So do you Nadine and everyone with your wonderful words. I know I say the same thing again and again but your words express it all.

Anonymous said...

^^ Sorry for the repetition above. Am having a hard time tonight and can't think straight...

Wet Dark and Wild said...

Nadine, my laptop crashes everytime it goes near YouTube, possibly a blessing.

With this 9-hour time difference I can't help thinking that I'll go to bed and then wake up and Heath will be buried. I hope there is oe official photo so that I know it took place and can find that peace.

So goof to see you TL xx Italian sounds just gorgeous - we need to send Jake on some language courses so we can hear him speak in these beautiful languages. I wish we didn;t have to say goodbye.

Get Real - it's so hard thinking straight. My head's a complete mess! I'm really having a hard time tonight too so you're not alone and I'm thinking of you xx

Anonymous said...

WDW what other movies is Jake supposed to be in? I know after Brothers he is supposed be doing the moon project. Is there more after that?

I hope so. I think that Jake needs to keep busy. I had thought, at one time, that sometime in the future Jake and Heath would team up for another movie together. They had a chemistry on screen that was so special. You could see how close they were, even after the movie was done.

now alas that is never going to be :(

thank you for keeping us updated on Heath.

trekfan

twistedlogic said...

I know this is a bit random, but I was wondering when that pic with Ang Lee was taken. I always assumed it was sometime during filming but that doesn't fit with Heath's short hair???

I can't get my head round the thought of Heath's funeral happening today/tomorrow, just typing the words feels wrong. I think I've gone back into denial mode. I can't imagine what his loved ones are feeling.

Wet Dark and Wild said...

Hi Trekfan - as far as I'm aware, it now looks like Jake has plans to film The Moon Project, Nailed and the Joe Namath film during 2008 (not necessarily in that order ;) It's still difficult to say about Nailed but some clues are there. Selfishly, I want Jake to be busy, I want to see lots of films. I would have loved to have seen Jake and Heath together in one of those...

Hey TL - so good to see you. I wonder if that picture was taken in the runup to the Oscars 2006 (judging by hair etc). I definitely think it was after the filming finished. I know, the funeral is hard to think on. Take care and much love, xx

twistedlogic said...

Thanks for clearing that up. I don't know why I've never thought about it before. I think my brain, such as it is, is looking for things to take my mind off...all this. It's not working:( So glad I have you all to share it with.Lots of love right back atcha all xx

Wet Dark and Wild said...

Good night TL and goodnight all - I feel like I've wept an ocean tonight. I'll wake up tomorrow and, because of the time gap, the funeral will be over. I'm so glad we've been able to talk about it here tonight as without doubt, for me, this has been the most difficult night since the 22nd. See you tomorrow - please don't go far xx

twistedlogic said...

(((WDW))) I'm never far away, you know that.You can call me ANYTIME. I could never have coped without you, and this place and everyone here. Not that we're over this yet, not by a long way, but as long as we're all here, and across the whole BBM/Jake/Heath communities, we'll be able to help each other through.

Anonymous said...

Hi Kate,

I've no idea if this works but I try to leave you a post...
Your latest entry is so beautiful - as always - but this one makes me also so very sad...
I can't even start to imagine how friends and family members must feel when I have this aching pain in my heart that tells me, I'm awfully sad that the life of a wonderful, fascinating and very charismatic man came to a sudden end.

What happened two weeks ago is such a tragedy and whenever I think about it I feel as if someone hits me in my stomach...

Take care my dear friend !!!!!

Love,
mel

Anonymous said...

Give me my Romeo; and, when he shall die,
Take him and cut him out in little stars,
And he will make the face of heaven so fine
That all the world will be in love with night
And pay no worship to the garish sun.
- Romeo and Juliet (Juliet at III, ii)

Anonymous said...

From DPA at Earthtimes.org

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Sydney - Hollywood stars mixed with friends and family at a memorial service in Perth on Saturday for Australian actor Heath Ledger. The service for more than 500 invited mourners in Ledger's west coast hometown was followed by a private funeral for the Brokeback Mountain star.

"It's a pretty sad time and we are finding it difficult to cope by ourselves, let alone with everybody around the world," the actor's father, Kim Ledger, told reporters. "Having said that, we do really appreciate the outpouring and the emotional support from all over the globe."

Ledger, 28, was found dead in his Manhattan apartment on January 22 from an accidental overdose of a cocktail of six different prescription drugs.

Michelle Williams, whom Ledger met on the set of Brokeback Mountain and who is the mother of his 2-year-old daughter Matilda, attended the service alone. Williams, 27, separated from Ledger late last year.

Jake Gyllenhaal, who also appeared in Brokeback Mountain and is godfather to Matilda, was on the guest list but was not spotted by reporters.

A mourner said actor Cate Blanchett "gave a funny and moving eulogy about their times spent together" - a reference to I'm Not There, a film biography of Bob Dylan in which Ledger and Blanchett were among six incarnations of the singer-songwriter.

Dylan's The Times They Are A-Changin' was played and a film shown of vignettes from Ledger's life.

Local media reported that Ledger's body was cremated after the private funeral service. Mourners were invited to a restaurant on Cottesloe Beach that was a favourite with the Oscar-nominated actor.

The programme for the funeral service read: "This room is filled with the love we all felt for a great friend who will be missed by all of us. We want to thank those of you who took care of him and participated in his beautiful life."


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URL: http://www.earthtimes.org/articles/show/184678,private-perth-funeral-for-australias-ledger--summary.html

RIP

Herman

Wet Dark and Wild said...

Good morning everyone - what an absolutely beautiful day here, not as hot as Perth for sure but just as sunny.

(((TL))) Thank you, my friend. I know youre always there, as am I. Difficult days. I found it hard reading about the funeral this morning but I feel better now having seen what an incredible sendoff Heath had.

Dear, dear Mel - thanks for commenting. You always know how to say what I'm feeling. Take care xx

Anon - thank you so much for that beautiful, beautiful quote - it really says it all.

Have a good day everyone

KeepCalm+CarryOn said...

Hello (((everybody))), hi (((WDW))). I can hardly see straight to type this morning. I've just watched a short,pretty respectful and restrained video clip of guests arriving for Heath's memorial service prior to his private cremation in Perth and read various reports, all in the perthnow section of www.news.com.au, and it has opened the floodgates good and proper.

I had to try to hold myself together to a certain extent last night because my hubby was downstairs but he's at work at the moment and free to let the pain out I just can't stop crying. It's all so bloody final,knowing that Heath has finally been laid to rest.

Restrained as the coverage might have been by the dubious standards of the press,I still feel there was too high a level of intrusion as mourners arrived. Heath's Mom and Dad have been absolute heroes,finding the strength and the courage in them somewhere to keep facing the press and making brave and beautiful statements about their wonderful lost son,either in writing or,most heroically,in front of film cameras. Please God let them be left alone now and anyone else in the public eye who is trying to adjust to Heath's passing.

The articles you guys posted above say that Jake was on the guestlist for the funeral but was not spotted by journalists/film crews. I'm hoping that is because he had found the strength from somewhere to attend the ceremony,but had thankfully managed by some subterfuge to evade the press completely. I didn't want him to be snapped by the Paps and his every look and gesture dissected to gauge the extent of his grief,which is what the low-lifes would have done. However,I have to confess that the lack of a sighting does worry me greatly,because maybe he was just so damned distraught he couldn't hack it and had to stay away. Who knows,and I have no right to find out. Yet I,like all of you,I suspect,just need to know that he's at least keeping his head above water. God bless you (((Jake))).

Anonymous said...

Reports of the funeral are coming in. Hard to read but it sounds like it was a beautiful ceremony. No more than the man deserves. No sign of Jake but I hope people dont obsess over whether or not he was there as it's not about him. Personally I think he's in Perth having evaded the press, but maybe he stayed away looking after his God-daughter.
Hope everyone is ok. Hugs to all.

KeepCalm+CarryOn said...

That's a beautiful thought LJF. Thank you.Someone had to be caring for Matilda while her Daddy was laid to rest. Who better for that task than Uncle Jake.
I think we're all just searching around for crumbs of comfort today and the thought of that possibility made me smile

sass said...

Morning Kate and everyone here,
I miss talking to you and everyone. My thoughts are scattered and that is a problem.
I do love this post and will return later to read it slowly.

Fourteen hours is too far away for me...I miss you Heath.
xoxoxo
sass

Anonymous said...

Good morning all -

Beautiful, sunny day here in New England too. So nice to read about Heath's beautiful cememony. I curled up on the couch and watched Brokeback last night, and I made it through, feeling even stronger about just how great Heath's and Jake's performances really were. I smiled a lot more than cried this time, except for the dozy embrace and the shirts scenes, and was even more affected by the beauty SNIT. I have totally lost track of how many times I've seen it now!

Thanks Herman and everyone for the info about Heath's funeral. I hope Jake is doing well also.

Anonymous said...

Morning

Thanks to all for the updates. Just hard to imagine it all.. My heart is heavy like all of you and it sounded like Heath got a beautiful sendoff. LJF I am with you re: Jake at or not in Perth/at funeral.

Please know I am here for you all as much as I appreciate you being here for me. This is a very hard time and we have to be here for each other.

Hang in there everyone and know what you are being held up.

(((everyone)))

paulh said...

"I would have loved to have seen Jake and Heath together in one of those..." [WDW]

Write to Terry Gilliam, and maybe your wish can come true. Jake has offered to be in "Imaginarium," though he would not be in any scenes with Heath (except CGI Heath).

Jake is a masterful actor who can disguise himself so well that no reporter can see past his disguises. ;-)

Anonymous said...

Good morning, y'all.

Yes, the Ledger family is my heros also. AND WDW. And all of you helping one another through this unimaginable sorrow with love and dignity.

I find this morning my favorite picture is that of the Cottesloe Beach - Im going to put it in myi photo album - I love to run along the firm wet sandy rim of the ocean
and Id like to be doing this right now but Im not - in New Mexico they called the northeast "the land of no sky" - oh, man! feels deark sometimes, but there is sun today, TBTG.

you all have been such fine company. Im full of thanks, for this. Im just sitting here yawning away with a kind of relief - although I still feel tears in my chest, and concern for Jake.

and yet Jake is so sturdy - one of the reasons we love him, I think, dont you? grounded, confident, and - your word WDW - canny - that is, he's lookin' out for family, self, community and not naively.

I do so wonder what's going on now, in "the industry" - surely "studios" or whatever whomever you call the guiding powers these days - has been very much involved in how this tragedy has play'd out. dontcha think?

Wet Dark and Wild said...

Hi everybody - so good to see you all this afternoon. A day of ups and downs.

Thanks for the links and info about the funeral. It sounds like Heath had a fine sending off.

Thanks for another great comment, Nadine. It's hard not to worry about Jake, I'm trying not to because I think he's strong and well loved, but it's not easy! So never enough hugs for Jake.

Good to see you LJF and that is a beautiful thought :)

Hi Sass - I hope you're OK. It's good to talk to you too.

Hi Bertie! I'm glad you found BBM a comfort - I do too. I'm on my own this evening so I think I may curl up with that, read the reports from Perth and then tomorrow hopefully feel more firmly back on an even keel.

Thanks Get Real and a big hug back x

Paul - that's a very good point ;)

Pia - what a wonderful comment. I know what you mean about the relief. And those are good words about Jake - he is sturdy, confident and canny for sure.

In soutehern England, it feels like the first day of Spring today.

Anonymous said...

I tried to post an image but it doesnt work. Anyway, on BBC news the top entertainment story is from Perth and has a photo of a memorial card that made me sad but also kind of content that he is finally sleeping undisturbed and hopefully at peace and rest at last.
I hope Jake is ok and I wish I knew if he was but I really want the Ledgers and Michelle and everyone else including Jake to just be left alone now.

Hugs to everyone.

I havent had the nerve to watch BBM yet. Did watch Casanova last nigt which is so silly and fun and Heath is just adorbale in it it made me very wistful.

twistedlogic said...

(((Everyone))) Just been looking at the pics of Heath's wake with all his friends and family splashing about in the sea and I'm sitting here crying an ocean of my own. I'm not even the crying type but I tend to get more emotional about happy things than sad things(I'm weird like that) and there's something about the sea that always touches me somehow and seeing those pics, so full of life and nature and love for Heath and celebration of his life just set me off. Damn...I have so much respect and admiration for Heath's family.The way they've conducted themselves with such grace,courage and dignity at this terrible time is simply humbling. May that strength of character, along with their precious memories, help them through as they try to rebuild their lives without their beloved boy.
As for the rest of us, I keep thinking of Ennis's line from BBm "what are we supposed to do now, huh?" I guess we just get on in there and be thankful for everything Heath gave us: the enjoyment we had and the lessons we learned and the friends we've made as a direct result of his talent and his willingness to put his heart and soul into his work. Thank you, Heath. May you rest in peace wherever you are,but rest assured you'll live forever in the hearts you touched and the lives you changed.

Wet Dark and Wild said...

Hi LJF - I know, it's hard. I want Jake to be left alone totally and yet I still want to know that he's all right - a tricky one. But my wants are secondary by a long way. I've not seen Casanova yet. I feel more content now too. I suspose it's because the waiting's over.

(((TL))) Thos beach pictures are just wonderful and so, so comforting and just what I neded to see today! I love to see Michelle like that. I'm filled with respect for Heath's family - amazing how well they've dealt with this - no wonder Heath was such an incredible human being - they must be so proud of him. Bodes well for Matilda!

Your comment is so beautiful, TL. Heath has given us tons - small wonder we adore him as we do. I love him and Jake for the friends they gave me!

Take care and you know where I am x