You know, I've been surprised and horrified by the downright rudeness (at the risk of sounding impeccably English) that has greeted Maggie Gyllenhaal across the net in her new role as Miss AP, an instructor who schools the ladies in lingerie for Agent Provocateur - no doubt with a strictness learned from the hands of James Spader. So in defence of Maggie, not that she needs it, I want to post a few more photographs of Miss AP, accompanied by a link to an article that explains that, although Maggie doesn't appeal to all, she does seem extremely sexy to many others, perhaps a silent majority, both male and female.
In Doing It For the Girls, the Times looks at why AP picked their new model, who, it seems, is not the obvious candidate, unlike predecessors Kylie Minogue and Kate Moss. 'But what’s Maggie, a bluestocking type, doing modelling satin basques? If you asked the average bloke in the street who they would want to see in their undies, she wouldn’t be top of the list. She’s comely but somewhat unconventional, and even Agent Provocateur – for which she is appearing in a new book of erotic fiction – admits she isn’t obvious man-magnet material. “We’ve always been mindful to create a brand that appeals to both men and women,” says Serena Rees, the co-founder of Agent Provocateur. And so they have. These pictures acknowledge the fact that girls fancy girls.'
Who buys this underwear, afterall? I doubt it's all bought by men. Perhaps an intelligent woman with some spare cash for sexy frills would prefer to look like Maggie, a smart and sexy woman, than a model, a blank canvas. Maggie is a mother and a lover - and look how confident and aware she looks - certainly, not comely as the article suggests. I was right, Maggie doesn't need defending - you just have to look at her.
Mountains of love and grief
If Maggie makes us redefine the conventions of sexuality and desire, then she is following in the footsteps of her younger brother Jake whom, in Brokeback Mountain, caused many who saw his film to reassess their lives and the love in those lives. Not an easy experince for most but love was never supposed to be easy.
In 2006, Andrew Holleran wrote 'Grief: A Novel', which 'captures the pain of a generation of gay men who have survived the AIDS epidemic and reached middle age yearning for fidelity, tenderness and intimacy'. As he prepared to publish this book, Andrew wrote a moving article about a source of inspiration for himself and so many of us: Brokeback Mountain.
When Andrew finished watching the film, he 'was relieved to know it was already dark outside, glad I did not have to walk past a gauntlet of people waiting for the next show.' I remember that feeling - walking quickly through the dark to find my car to hide in. Andrew almost appears to have come obsessed by watching the reaction of audiences, especially the young, as they left the theatre, and then being driven to defend the film at every opportunity because it affected him so entirely and he couldn't understand why some appeared immune.
In The Magic Mountain, Andrew Holleran discusses the different atitudes towards Brokeback amongst gay men, their alternate responses to Jack and Ennis, so homely in the original story, yet so very handsome in the film. Above all, as Jake has said on more than one occasiona, Brokeback Mountain is a love story, it just happens to be love between two examples of the American icon, the cowboy.
'This may also be why one review complained that Brokeback is ahistorical: the romance takes place in a vacuum, with no reference to anything outside the relationship. The longing of Jack and Ennis for one another, though set in the early 1960’s, seems to unfold in its own little world—the way love does, actually. I suppose, had Ennis and Jack been allowed to live together, or grow old, their romance would have devolved into arguments over dish washing, channel changing, drinking, and depression. Maybe they would have moved to San Francisco, or started doing threesomes. But in this movie they do not. Their love lives on after you leave the theater because it was never obtained.'
As Andrew Holleran points out, while the actors Jake Gyllenhaal and Heath Ledger may have moved on from Brokeback Mountain, it's not quite so easy for those of us whose lives have been transformed and who are still working towards that sweet life.
Thanks to Jantoinette for sending me this beautiful article.
AP pictures (c)Alice Hawkins.
31 comments:
A wonderful thoughtful post, WDW.
"Their love lives on after you leave the theatre because it was not obtained."
That means it's up to us to finish the story--through our imaginative
understanding of its potential endings, and through the transformation of our own lives. In neither case can we see or "obtain" the final outcome. We can only live it out--in all its possibilities of pain and hope.
We've talked a lot about the magnetism and mystery of "unobtainable Jake"--and the way he leads us on with small clues or "tricks" to try to capture him anyway. It seems here that Maggie too has a sense of the magic of the unobtainable, and understands, like her brother, that both men and women respond powerfully to that unanswerable invitation.
Keats once wrote a poem, "Ode to a Graecian Urn," about the sweet pain of one lover chasing another. In turning the urn he could see that the chase would never end, and that was the poignant power of their love: a beautiful torment that neither they, nor we who hold the vase, can ever obtain.
Where did my original post go? Perhaps it was too "emotional" - or else I was too ways into my evening wee dram.
O gosh! what did I say?
WDW your post made mush outta me! also Kim: "it's up to us to finish the story"
I am a great admirer of Andrew Hollaran!
Grief and love - the GLBT folks have taught us so much!
WDW you are very courageous, moving into new worlds where we are meant to go!
O gosh - see y'all tomorrow!
Kim - thanks for that great comment - I'm glad you liked the post.
I definiely agree - brokeback resonates because we supply the ending, anything so that Ennis avoids that desolate trailer and Jack the cold grave. And thanks for the reminder of Keats - one of my favourites from my college days :) A perpetual chase for love.
Pia - you posted at the same time as me *) Maybe that's what made you lose your words - blogger's like that - it's temperemental and doesn't get what we're about.
I'm so glad you liked this post - sometimes if I feel like Maggie and Jake are under attack,I come over all protective and I want critics to see what we can take from them and what they can offer us, if we're willing. Grief and love.
PS I've had a wee dram too ( a long, long day at work today), so excuse my spelling and punctuation ;)
Well, because I am so impressed by the Alice Hawkins photos, I went on in to the AP site and was going to order the catalog...alas, I cannot afford to spend $12 on shipping for a catalog selling items I could likewise never afford anyway. Oh well.
I also tend to get very, very protective of Jake and, increasingly as I get to know more of her, Maggie. But as you indicated, she does not require our defense. Nor does her brother, as his continued success has proven.
I've got BBM playing on cable right now, and when Jack stood up to L.D. on Thanksgiving, I felt an overwhelming urge to jump his bones. What a man.
Thanks for the link to the Holleran piece, which I had not read before. I may have a different take on some of his points (inevitable, as I am not a gay man) but it certainly was an eloquent commentary.
Cherita Thanks very much for commenting. I'm not a gay man either and so like you I don't see BBM in quite the same way as Andrew Holleran does but it's so good to read about anyone who feels so strongly for the film. Isn't it strange but wonderful how we all take something different from our Brokeback experience?
I have to own up here... I've been looking at the AP items too. I love some of them. Maggie's doing the trick then :)
Even though they might not need us, it is a good feeling to be want to be protective of these two - justa s we want to protect Jack from LD during that awful dinner! It's midnight here, maybe I've time to put some of BBM on. You've inspired me :D
Im not gone to bed yet, though Im sure this is not anything anyone needs to know.
I read an earlier view of BBMt Andrew Hollaran - this is more deeply felt - I think the film was a shock to many - took awhile - what is this? and I like very much his broad responses.
okay Im really going to bed =
g'night, lovelies!
G'night pia I'm off to bed now too (not that anyone needs to know that either!) Speak to you tomorrow *)
A few of us remained in the dark theater, on our feet, listening to Willie Nelson sing “He was a friend of mine,” watching every single credit unroll until only the corporate logos remained.
I think a lot of us who saw Brokeback Mountain felt this way. Wow, what a moving article. It just goes to show how much people could identify with this story - the main story and all of it's underlying complexities - for many reasons, whatever your relationship or circumstances. Thanks so much, Jantoinette and WDW. I remember, when the film was over, turning to my right and seeing a young man with a tear streaming down his face, and a man in the row in front of me giving someone I assumed to be his partner an affectionate touch. Such a beautiful and well-made film. :')
And on a lighter note, I think Maggie looks wonderful in her underwear, I love the 40s glam/young Norma Desmond-ish look. Maggie, you know you look good! ;)
Good night, all! :*
I really don't know what's wrong with those people who feel the urge to give their opinion about questions that are already been solved by someone who is certainly more well-informed and entitled to take a decision about those questions...>:(
I think that AP KNEW what they're doing when they chose Maggie for their campaign...she's sexy, she's a beauty (yes, a 'non-conventional' one, hoo-rah), she's talented and she's tough. Go Maggie! :)
It'll take some more time for me to read all the Abdrew Holleran's article because of my non-always-at-ease English but what I remember my first experience of BBM as really upsetting to me, it made me hungry for watching it again and again and again...and I'm still hungry...
Norma Desmond is never a good name to invoke, Marina :):) I know what you mean, though. I think she looks lovely! You always get nasty comments on general celeb blogs - 14 year old kids just home from school, probably.
Thank you for the Holleran piece, WDW and jantoinette. As you know, WDW, I never leave the mountain these days - I can't watch BBM past the last day on the mountain, because of the overwhelming feeling I have, and had from first seeing it, of wanting to get into the picture and *make it right*.
OMG, I've just seen Kim quoting my FAVOURITE poem and analysing it beautifully :)x
Hi everyone :)
Hey Marina - I remember watching it in the cinema and feeling like I was sharing something with everyone in the theatre - a lot of couples holding on to each other. Then there was one time I went and there were two teenage girls who just giggled their way through the film until the end when it got them. HA! I thought.
Hi Xenia - thanks for commenting :) I agree that AP got it absolutely right with Maggie. I do like the almost vampish look.
Anouska - I rarely get down from the mountain myself. Last night, I went back up there and when I left, they were still there.
Wonderful post, and thank you Jantoinette and WDW for the Holleran article, which I'd never read. I've saved it.
I guess what each of us brings to any work of art determines what we feel about it, but I still am mystified how anyone could view BBM and not be deeply touched in some way. Even some of my own gay friends dismiss it.
"Sweet pain of one lover chasing another" -- we can all relate to that.
About Maggie: She is truly unique -- and a refreshing change, in my view. Most so-called beautiful women all look alike. I certainly have difficulty telling most "Hollywood" actresses apart. Models, too. Most of them look like wet noodles who share one plastic surgeon.
Maggie exudes intelligence, individuality, talent and sex like no other. Well, Susan Sarandon comes to my mind -- I've always admired her for the same reasons.
Hi Beckela - I feel the same way, that somehow people immune to BBM must be missing some crucial gene. Those who don't want to react to it don't go, but those who do go and feel nothing, I don't get it.
I like your comparison of Maggie to Susan, another intelligent and sexy actress (and seemingly ageless). Maggie seems to be a hit in the UK press today for AP.
Thanks for commenting :)
I loved this post for several reasons, not least the link to the Holleran article which I've had to skim for now to savour later.
It took me back to my first "Brokeback" experiences on the big screen, saw it four times in ten days, three times alone, the final time with a sceptical friend who expected to be revolted but ended up finding it beautiful and brilliantly played.
The 3 times I was on my own I went to the Matinee performance,so there were relatively few people at each showing and no young kids, so the handful of people who were there were quiet,attentive and respectful, which made it easier to lose myself in the film.
Every time I was the last one out of there,just sat sobbing quietly throughout the credits,hardly able to see them because my eyes were streaming tears. Whoever chose those Willie Nelson and Rufus' songs as the swansongs of "Brokeback" made the perfect choice - in terms of mood,lyrical aptness and the melancholic beauty to wring the last drop of heartache out of this and many other spellbound "Brokies" around the world.
I drove home on auto-pilot every time,still crying for 15 miles. Not a good idea, don't try this at home!
Parts of the film on DVD I've watched myriad times, especially on the Mountain, sometimes I feel I just have to watch some of the sad scenes in isolation. A complete viewing, which I dared to embark upon recently for the first time in months gets harder/more emotional/more beautiful every time. Had their ending been happy,however,did we not yearn to change their tragedy and imagine how different it might have been, would we still be caught in it's spell now?
It's strange that a story we know to be the work of a woman's imagination, can transfix us all so much that we still ache about it after all this time and I don't think that's going to change. Most of us have our own personal "Brokeback" which makes this film extra special and unforgettable. As for Jake and Heath, well they may have moved on from "Brokeback Mountain" in terms of their career, but as people I'm sure it has changed them (not least because Heath became a father because of it). By their own admission it was an intense experience which had a profound effect on them and I'm sure the echos of it will live on in Jake and Heath forever.
I too am saving a happier subject for last. Maggie's AP photos. I too get very defensive of her, not just because she is Jake's sister, but because I truly feel she is a talented and uniquely beautiful woman who doesn't deserve some of the hateful vitriol that this advertising campaign,amongst other things, has brought upon her from some very unkind, unnecessarily vicious people. Beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder, and to me she looks utterly gorgeous.
In fact,in reponse to the article, which is also on Jake's official site, I was bold enough to say there that,were I to look the part (which I don't), for those of you who've seen the film "The Hunger", I'd gladly be Susan Sarandon to Maggie's Catherine Deneuve any day of the week! ;-)
Nadine -- wonderful comment!
Ah, The Hunger. I LOVE that film -- I must rent it since it's been years since I've seen it. A strange, beautifully shot film. David Bowie did a nice job in it as well, but he and absolutely everyone else in the film just disappear due to the power of Deneuve and Sarandon, both gorgeous in very different ways, very smart women.
Nadine wrote :"In fact,in reponse to the article, which is also on Jake's official site, I was bold enough to say there that,were I to look the part (which I don't), for those of you who've seen the film "The Hunger", I'd gladly be Susan Sarandon to Maggie's Catherine Deneuve any day of the week! ;-)"
Yes, I've seen "The Hunger" several times Nadine, it was one of my cult movies back in the '80s and apparently you're not the only one of the line...;)
Oh Anouska, I know what you mean!
As soon as I hit "send", I thought, maybe that wasn't the best way to describe it, but I'm glad you knew what I meant!
It's the turban - and I think Maggie can carry off these looks so well - the Gloria Swanson turban, the Rita Hayworth side-part, the 20s flapper look (my personal favorite era), like she has in the pic with Jake in the Jarhead thread below. I enjoyed the accompanying article too, but I gotta tell ya that as much as I admire Maggie, it's her very beau frere that I have the crush on. If he would dress up as Valentino for a photo, I'd be a very happy woman! I remember reading somewhere that Steven Spielberg described Jake as having the eyes of a silent film star. *sigh* :) I'd carry a picture around of him too, guys, my problem is I can't decide on which one! Every time I do, another one comes around more beautiful than before. Decisions, decisions.
Maggie's AP pics are very artistic I think. I don't know why people feel so free to write nasty comment, I wonder if it's because they forget that behind the internet pixels are real people. :)
Hi Beckela and Xenia. Good to know that I'm in such good company!
I went to see "The Hunger" not just because the fabulous Bowie was in it but also because of a cameo appearance, early on in the nightclub scene,of one of my favourite 80's bands, "Bauhaus" - penned up in a cage, singing the iconic Goth classic, "Bela Lugosi's Dead". Wonder what Peter Murphy is doing now (lead singer) - must Google him!
Indeed it was a beautifully shot film, especially the Sarandon/Deneuve pas de deux ;-) Deneuve the classic beauty and Sarandon a very attractive,strong,feisty woman.
Must order "The Hunger" too, when I order the DVD of "Highway" in the near future. Nostalgia can be so enjoyable!
This person on the other side of the 'internet pixels' (like that!) is getting distracted from work by these amazing comments!
Nadine - thank you! How I love the insightfulness and wit of your comments :) I thin that the end of BBM was calculated to have as devastating effect as possible, with the choice of those two songs. Like you, I was a mess driving home after the three occasions when I was able to see this at the pictures. I remember the first time, the only time I've ever listened to the blues in the car.
And I agree so much, that if Jack had been given his sweet life, it wouldn't have had the lasting impact on us, and we wouldn't be able to use the film to mould our own lives, should we wish it.
'The Hunger' - fabulous! I'm with you on that one Xenia and Beckela - I'll have to search that one out again.
Oh Marina - the thought of the beau frere in the full Valentino garb, draped upon cushions in a tent, which is gently blowing in the desert wind. Don't do this to me!! How am I supposed to work!!
...help....
You're so right, Marina. These people should think how they would feel if such comments were published about their sister or their girlfriend before they plough on and post some truly hateful slurs and insults!
Oh Nadine, I neve saw The Hunger, but I was a huge fan of Peter Murphy and Bauhaus, and of course Bowie. Peter Murphy has such an interesting voice - I also wonder what he is doing now. I'll be sure to see The Hunger.
Oh and yes, Marina,it is definitely the beau frere that I'm enraptured about (much to my husband's chagrin)...I'm just saying,in the right,never-gonna-happen circumstances, I think I could be distracted by his sister... ;-)
LOL Nadine, my husband rolls his eyes too, but he's not losing any sleep over my crush! Wonder why . . . ;)
So many wonderful posts today. :-)
The first time I saw BBM, I drove home from the theater on autopilot. That evening my son and his girlfriend came over to visit, and I had a hard time chatting with them. My mind just kept going back to the mountain. I finally just told them the reason I was so distracted, that this movie had just taken over my entire being. (They have both seen the movie and think it's very good.)
But I, too, have to stop watching at their last meeting. The last part is just so devastating - when we discover, at the same moment Ennis does, the depth of Jack's love.
I'm off to RL for now. Have a good day, evening, everyone. :-)
Mr WDW has become adept at the shrug, the subtle shake of the head, the rolling of the eyes and the exaggerated yawn when he suspects Jake is about to enter a conversation, or a Jave DVD about to enter the machine. But he agrees Jaking is a lot more fun than work and does me good - on that we're agreed :)
Nadine - that's fine, you can have Maggie, and we can have Jake - No?
Neely - Hi :) You did well to relate to your family at all after viewing BBM - I had to keep going for long, long walks.
not only husbands do the yawn and rolling of the eyes. I have friends who do this, just a few. I can choose to keep off the subject, with these, but it makes me sad. Love me, love my Jake.
Flattered and honoured by your compliments as I am,WDW, the answer to your question is a resounding NO! I demand my fair share of Jake! ;-)
And don't worry Pia. My RL friends don't understand my Jake-junkie status either...which is one of the reasons I come here, to be with people who just "get it"! Just love being in your esteemed company - we have such great taste!
Hey Pia - I think I want this on a mug or t-shirt - 'Love me, love my Jake'. Definitely :)
As you say Nadine at least here great minds think alike!
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